Gossiping

Gossiping by definition means casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details that are not confirmed as being true. This occurs more in the female population, but men also start doing it more frequent. When this type of conversation start we need to cut it. It’s obsessing the mind with things we don’t need to spend on even for one second.

Most probably people do it because they are jealous about the doted person, or they are somehow possessed with him/her. Why would you start conversation about a person you have no concern about? It wouldn’t matter how he looks, or how his girlfriend look, she is too beautiful for him, he is too beautiful for her; his/her hair looks stupid and uncombed. This type of conversations should not exist. If you have a crush on his/her girlfriend, it’s not his fault that he/she was more successful than you.

Planning to go out and drink coffee with friends and gossip about some people you have no true details about, then you should really stay at home. Individuals are starting this type of conversation and its spreading like virus all around the table. Your opinion about some person won’t change anything about them. It will just put you into negative mood and you will start with the bad thoughts.

People often compare them by resources or simply said by money. You will see Gucci or Dolce and Gabbana on someone, who goes out from his/her Ferrari and you start to see him/her and the negative thought start. If it’s he usually goes: Look at this criminal. He made his money by stealing from people and now he is spending it on elite vacations, going out spending thousands of euros on bottles and buying expensive clothes and cars. If it’s she usually is: Look at this gold digger. She found a rich husband. She is spending money on jewelry from her criminal husband, expensive cars and expensive clothes. This is common thoughts that’s indulging into people minds when they spot aristocratic people.

You have no freaking idea what’s happening in their life. Are they really criminals and gold diggers? Are they really in love or did he really made his money from drugs and stealing from people? Even if you do, this DOES NOT concern you. Unless you see your wife going out of Ferrari with an unknown aristocratic guy! You cannot let this type of stuff occur and possess your mind. That’s why individuals create stuff. They spend so much energy on their own dreams that there is not even second to think about other people lives. They are so into their own that there is no way that’s not going to happen. They have so much confidence and belief in their dreams, that there is no way they are failing at it.

Aut viam inveniam aut faciam! The phrase has been attributed to Hannibal (the Punic Carthaginian military commander), when his generals told him it was impossible to cross the Alps by elephant, this was supposedly his response. And he made it!

One more time, do not bother with other people lives. They will even be jealous because you don’t truly care and have lot more effect than to gossip them and pull their attention! Chase your dream, be self-determined and reach the life goal you always wanted!

“Aut viam inveniam aut faciam”