Some men find submissive, timid and ultra-feminine women very attractive. But there are women who will kick your ass if you expect such things from them. Such a woman is an Alpha Female. She is bold, courageous and in charge of her life. Here are a few things that you should know before you date an Alpha Female:
- She will challenge you.
She will challenge you and will also easily defeat you. An Alpha female can be very persistent and thorough. She is excellent at debating and it would require some serious effort from your side to challenge her back.
- She is fiercely independent.
An Alpha female is extremely independent and doesn’t need a man at her heels all the time. She can handle her life on her own and takes much pride in being self-reliant. Alpha females don’t need you rather they want you.
If you are the type of man who likes to feel needed by women, she is definitely not for you.
- She will be honest and upfront with you.
If your woman has some issues with you then she will be honest about it. She will not play passive-aggressive guessing games with you like other women. She could be mean in her treatment of the subject but that doesn’t mean she loves you any less. Her gentleness is not the only proof of her love for you so try to understand that this is how an Alpha female is.
- She believes in action more than words.
Alphas believe in action and completing the task. They do not sit and talk about it till the end of time. If she says that she will do something, you can be thoroughly sure that she will do it. This is not a one-sided affair because she will expect you to do the same. If are not able to then you should probably find another mate for yourself.
- Wooing her
An Alpha female is not floored by chocolates and flowers. Wooing her requires much more effort and patience. She will not be impressed by common tokens of affection; you will need to be original and extraordinary at the same time.
However, this does not mean that she is rigid or made of stone. She appreciates honest effort which means something rather than hollow signs of love. Work on your romantic skills and you will definitely win her heart.
- She could be a handful.
Loving an Alpha Female is not easy. She could prove to be difficult, competitive and will get on your nerves far too many times. There is a possibility that she could also be complicated and difficult to understand.
She will not relinquish her freedom for any one and those who try to subdue her will not be successful. You should give yourself some time to understand her ways and life.
- She is worth it.
You could feel out spirited by her energy and attitude but you should look at the positive effects of such a thing. Let her spirit empower you to become what you want. She will guide you, inspire and motivate you to achieve your goals.
Being with her will make you more aware of yourself which will drive you towards success. Her push can prove to be very beneficial for you. You will be a changed man before you even know it. You will be a better man than you were before.