The Naughty Secret to Keeping Him Obsessed With You

All relationships go through phases where the romance tends to ebb and flow.

There will be times when it feels like your boyfriend/husband is pulling away from you. The spark will seem to have gone out of your life, not to mention your bedroom.

These cycles are natural in relationships. The important thing to realize is that you have to inculcate the ability to bounce back from them.

A better understanding of what makes the ‘arousal’ tick in your relationship is crucial for this to happen. If you truly understand your partner, it really won’t matter if you’ve aged a thirty years since the first time you kids met. He’ll still look at you like he did when he first sneaked into your life.

This is something Felicity Keith figured out for. She had to go through a life changing experience for it, but it was worth it.

Who is Felicity Keith?

She’s just an ordinary woman. She’s a Washington soccer mom who is forty-two years old and considers herself slightly overweight. There were times when her self-esteem was shot through so thoroughly that she could not help but look at the face in the mirror and cry. We’ve all been there at some point. It’s not a pretty place to be for sure.

But her boyfriend finds Felicity to be the love of his life and his personal $ex goddess to boot. How does that add up you ask? Well the answer lies in the fact that Felicity discovered three really important factors which really went a long way in improving her relationship and her self-image.

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1. It’s not all Looks

Physical attraction is an important part of the cocktail that goes into making the romantic chemistry. However, people often make the mistake of believing it to be the only one. Physical beauty does not compare to the presence of an actual connection in a relationship. Trust and communication between the partners is what makes a relationship durable in the long run. That seems rather boiler plate, does it?

Remember that this means that men, once they fall in love with your mind and personality will also be erotically charged by you. Forget what the conventional standards of beauty have to say about how you look. There’s a reason the tabloid magazines are full of stories of heartbroken supermodels.

2. Get at his Mind

What people often don’t realize is that the most sexual organ in any human is the brain and not the things you were thinking about (get it out of the gutter mate!). If you can attract and stimulate a man’s mind, he’ll be yours to command; hook, line and sinker. You can genuinely get him to do nothing but to pine for you.

What you have to realize is that if you’ve managed to spark his mind into being interested not just in your body but in you as a person; you’ve got a stronger grip than if you had your hands on his ‘thing’. A meeting of the minds is obviously the key to forging a long-term relationship that is likely to stand the test of time.

3. There’s one simple, astonishing, naughty method ANY woman can use to become the absolute “Mistress of His Sensual Imagination” . . . to become the absolute focus of his every fantasy . . . to have your man counting down the moments until he gets to take you in his arms again . . .

That entire superficial pretense is no longer needed. You don’t need to look the way the fashion magazines say passes for ‘sexy’. To get a man to be focused on you and only you (so he can’t even think about other women and so he craves and desires you constantly all you have to do is _____________.

Can you fill in the blank?

I would say: touch his mind, and he will always be yours.

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